As usual, I arrive late, but this is a great party, so...
I've always, always, always preferred Shemp over Curly. While I can soitenly appreciate Curly's role in making them into what we know today, I also say that was part of the problem. Of course, Curly couldn't maintain a childlike wonderment during his stroke (notice the couple of films before A Bird in the Head--Curly isn't nearly as childlike as he was). It makes me wonder what he would've been like as he aged. Would he have been able to tone that down, or would it have morphed into something else?
But with Shemp, watching his solo stuff in the 30's, that character was pretty well set. No worries about childlike wonderment here! Pure comedy gold, which may or may not have worked well with audiences then (if he, instead of Curly, was in
Woman Haters.) Personally, taking Curly out and putting Shemp in (via computer magic in my head), makes that film even funnier! Imagine him crooning to Marjorie White!
As for the "all women hate the Stooges," I thought that died out--personally, I can't see why women would. If you don't like them, fine, but to dismiss them? Uh-uh. Besides, what comedy WOULD "women like"? What DO women find funny? If someone can tell me, perhaps I won't have to burn my wimmin's card.